I found it did not help to post other photos of myself since they apparently were only seen by gay men who paid for a membership or older out of shape women that I had no interest in meeting. Many of the main profile photos posted by their members are quite revolting.Also I did not see any clear explanation as to how one could cancel a so called upgraded membership and this leads me to believe it would be a hassle to stop automatic renewals.Mostly you can meet either ugly women looking for some attention or pretty prostitutes asking you to pay for their services.On sites with Eastern European women you can meet plenty of naughty and young (and not so young) girls, incredibly hot and pretty, many of them look like real models.Also after I complained they had some people write me who are called "ambassadors" who make an attempt to welcome you to the site and although it is a nice gesture they are full of condescending advice again on how it is your fault that you're not meeting anyone "oh if only you would post a million photos, and go into every chat room and do this and do that" again every excuse in the world except for their lame site.I am no fan whatsoever of sites like POF but even as horrible as that site was, I actually met people.I found that adding photos of myself did not help since only paid members can view the photos and very few attractive women seem to be paid members.The only thing they seem to have done right is that they are allowing nude photos to be used in the main profile photo.
theres more faake profiles on there then ive ever known on a site i think the admin are as crooked as the people who make the fake profiles and abuse people ive copied and pasted conversations to the abuse admiin and they wont do anything abt this problem I can assure anyone reading this that AFF is almost a complete waste of time.
The first mistake by the people who run the site is in allowing profiles to be made that do not show a face or even the overall build of the people who join their web-site.
Secondly one can not view a profile properly or read anything about another member unless they first pay for the ability to view it.
However I called their customer service and they were at least ethical and decent enough to offer me a prorated refund, so for that I am thankful.
There are many of these horrible sites out here who don't have real customer service people and who wouldn't give you back one penny of your money.