I'd say half of my partners, 4, have come from here and I used it for 6 months (then year break then used it about another year before stopping again)Is this for real? Your goal is to make her cum so hard that she forgets her own name.
As a gay man, I can pick any random gay site, even if it's crap and small and find some penis in like, 5 clicks. The women are there for sex, act like you are too and don't beat around the bush. But you know one thing: If you never try you will always fail, every day, every hour, every second. Manage that, and she'll probably return the favor. Throw her back down and give her round two, then round three.
I could literally head to right now and have someone here in 20 minutes. I've fucked dozens of substantially hot and freaky women from AFF. You say "it's not that easy" or maybe "you just don't understand to understand a simple fact: The world is not skewed in your favour. Life is not supposed to be easy, it is not supposed to be any way. You need to choose where you want to be, and then you need to work your way towards it. Then go to sleep (and cuddle her hard, you bastard), go have breakfast, then maybe, just maybe, let her do what she's dying to do to Mr. Sure, you'll probably bust your nut in two seconds this time but, because of the ground work, she'll just think it's because you think she's so damn hot, and not that you're an inexperienced dude.
I think the most important part is to be sincere and honest, and non-creepy. There are no checkpoints along the way, or small boxes with rewards - life is not a video game. It is hard, it is sometimes unfair, it is sometimes difficult, even painful. Congratulations -- you're now about to ride the sausage bus to pound town multiple times and you can finally relax and have fun doing it. Bump uglies like you're trying to mine gold out of bedrock, or trying to pry orgasms out of each other...
She probably has about 10 guys she's thinking of meeting, but she'll want to meet the guy that wants her the most.
Edit: If you're a virgin your body is going to be so excited to have sex the first time you're going to be rubbish. I want to keep up with helping out but I can't respond to every pm as well as I would like. They are the self-entitled ones who believe that food should fly in their mouths, and that their great inner values are enough to become great, no work needed. The most ridiculous and sexist concept I have ever heard of. But that doesn't change the matter: If you believe that somebody else to love you because you do something nice for them; if you believe that somebody else needs to feel a certain way because of things you do - then you are an idiot. Maybe you are just unlucky, there are a few of those - but, if you are honest with yourself, the chance that you are one of them is small. Bad for you that you say yes to all those donuts and chips. You avoid that donut and in return you wake up in the morning and your trousers fit. And then as far as dressing nice--fuck, some people figure out a cool style, other people look in magazines/clothing websites and try to find examples of stuff they're not totally embarrassed wearing that seems to fit in with the current style.
You can't expect to be an expert at something you're just trying for the first time. Don't watch porn to learn how to do this, read some of the great posts here about it. I thought a subreddit where other Dads could pitch in might be helpful. Sure, there might be one or two who would deserve better luck - but likely, when you are honest with yourself, you are probably not one of them. Yes, it's now applied in both directions, but traditionally it is that a woman "puts" a "nice" guy in the friendzone. If you are unhappily in the friendzone - you are an idiot, plain and simple. Is there a "fair" universe - where fair means biased in your favour - that gives you all the things you want? If you are on Reddit whining about your lack of friends or partner or your horrible job - then consider for a moment whether you are part of the problem, whether it is not your fault rather than the rest of the world being rude to you. Most people are socialised in this "get it all" society. You start reading a book on French and the next day you can talk fluently. But yeah, the breezy way Prolapsed Pineal describes all this is the sort of explanation that can only come from a dude who's been married for 20 years with stable friends/relationships for that long and completely forgets how tough it is building that stuff in the first place.
I don't know, I guess the only thing to do is keep trying.
Or kill myself, but I'm punting that until I'm 30, I figure 3 solid years of trying and failing is proof positive that things aren't going to work out.