But the Bible does not promise that God will provide a loving relationship for you while you sit around and do nothing.
Your head and your heart should be in Scripture at all times, but you won't find specific guidelines for dating. The answer isn't in the Bible (though the Song of Solomon sure gives us a clue). It's up to you to be in prayer and conversation with your Christian community about these things. I thought my wife was out of my league when I met her.
He says that God joins the relationship between a man and a woman at the point of marriage.
Before that, the couple has to take the initiative.
God will tell them if a relationship is right, and God will end it if it's not.
All they have to do is sit back and enjoy the ride.