So, get the door for her, look me in the eye when you talk to me, and please don’t let your britches fall down so low that I have to look at your underwear band.Believe me, good manners will help you get on her good side, and mine too. Regardless of our bodies, in our heads we've never been female. Everyone likes different things in the bedroom, regardless of being trans or not. Obviously I don't mean you need to shout it from the rooftops... It means you're seeing them for the man that they are.2. I've heard some girls say a trans man would be the perfect man because they can relate to women. Some people struggle with this one but the thing to remember is your sexual orientation is a totally separate thing from your gender. Sure, that makes a difference physically but it doesn't make them any less of a guy! but then again it's nerve-wracking with anyone for the first time! If we're open about being trans, there's no reason for you to hide it either. There are so many other aspects that are more important - our personalities, interests, sense of humour... I can't speak for everyone but I can tell you that being with a trans guy isn't all about walking on egg shells.12. So resist doing most of the talking by doing most of the listening.The more your daughter talks, the more you’ll learn; so keep the focus and spotlight on her as much as possible. During the date, always try to speak something positive into your daughter’s future that affirms, encourages, and reminds her of her value.However, I knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with Faythe until I was able to earn her trust and win her heart.
And now I was considered the her mom’s attention and affection.No, I’m not going to be nosey, rude or obsessive about it.But, if my daughter’s phone just happens to be laying on the table, and I see she’s gotten a text, I might take a look at it. But even more challenging when you’re the father of a 14-year-old stepdaughter.My stepdaughter Faythe’s biological father abandoned her when she was only 6 years old, and it shattered her tender heart into a million pieces.No, I won’t hide in the backseat or stalk you when you’re with my daughter, but she and I have an agreement that she checks in often with home, and lets me know where she is and where she’s going.Also, secret meetings and clandestine adventures will be discovered—I have my ways! What rules do you have for someone dating your daughter?I must confess, I had no idea how to go about dating my daughter until my mentor, a father of five boys and three girls, gave me some advice that not only transformed my relationship with my now 14-year-old stepdaughter but ultimately earned me the right to be called her “Daddy.” For Dads looking for the perfect night out with their daughter, here are four things to remember.Make sure your daughter knows she can share anything with you and you won’t criticize or be angry with her when she does.Sure my daughter is fun, but she’s also a student, and in our house, school comes before fun.That means she won’t be going with you to the mall, the movies or out to dinner on a school night.