I have women email me weekly about this challenge, and the biggest question I get is “Is this challenge for me?
I’m not really dating anyone, and I’m not caught up in sexual sin. ” Andy primarily recommends this challenge for people who are or have been caught up in dysfunctional and sexual relationships.
When I was single I was not in bondage to sexual sin. I was not perfect, and I do have regrets, but on a spectrum I can’t say this was my primary area of defeat.
There are so many quotes I wish I could share with you here, but for a taste: If you’ve never been married, you should know the sexual decisions you make before you say ‘I do’ will impact your sexual experience afterward.
Your sexual experience will be impacted by your partner’s pre-vow sexual decisions as well.” (p. So I have the perspective of that of a single woman and that of a married woman.
As I talk to single women I find that their focus is on circumstances surrounding them and the person they hope to meet.
Seldom are the women concerned with who they are becoming.