Some studies found 94% correlation between male ratings of females.
In other words, if a person is objectively a 7 (attractive), most people would rate that person as a 7, few would rate as 6 or 8, but noone would rate this person as a 4.
That was about 100,000 years ago, and our brains did not have time to adapt to the modern environment.
That’s a very bad thing – deep down we simply cannot comprehend such basic modern concepts as: The list can go on, and it means that in each one of these domains we have inherited a set of default behavior which is maladaptive to the modern life.
All in one easy-to-remember acronym: the word BASICS We’re taught that the most important key to finding love is to make ourselves more attractive.
As seductive as that message sounds, it’s really just self-doubt in a sexy outfit.
Here comes the good thing: The good thing is once you understand that you have default programming in your brain, something coded directly in your DNA, you can see this genetic behavior for what it is and make better choices. Ever thought why people you like rarely like you back?
If you want to combine, risk, skills, insight and dating adventures, don’t miss these three practices. You’ll also learn more about yourself, take some fabulous risks, and have fun in the process. In this episode you’ll learn how to spark deep love, profound bonding and sexual deliciousness in your relationship.These aren’t games or gimmicks–they are the lifelong tools of building attraction and deeper love.In this episode, I’ll share a simple way to stay connected to your heart, develop your sense of discrimination, and lead you most quickly to the love you desire.Thus you feel more attracted to beautiful people for reasons of their good genes.Your own genetic computing neural networks have determined that mating with these beautiful individuals is likely to produce fit and successful children, who will be beautiful and would have easier time finding mates.While you find that super dorky nerd who seems to always be around repulsive?Think on these no further, for I’m about to tell you why 🙂 You have a special neural circuit deep down inside your brain that helps you analyze and quantify the people you meet.The Love Sex Dating Calculator helps you understand the principles behind this attraction dynamics and explains the kinds of relationships which arise from different attractiveness of partners. To use the app you need to do some self-introspection and determine your own attractiveness value, then enter it on appropriate dial. I wrote the app, and I’m still not fully comfortable with the concept.When you start the app, you are greeted with a scale with two dials – male on top and female on the bottom. But this does not change the fact that your brain subconsciously does this for every potential mate that you meet.Here things get more complicated, because humans are a special species with “dual mating dynamic” – a male can either have casual sex and leave a woman a single mother, or he can invest in his offspring – feed, teach and protect them.While many people have rudimentary understanding of the concept, many are confused why the partner does not show behavior consistent with one of these mating dynamics.