I lost my best friend around this time because I felt judged by her.Losing her friendship was very painful for me and today we are like strangers.
But she says, “that changes very quickly when the devastation for the person and their partner comes to light”.
We have four kids ranging in age from eight to 18 who we both absolutely adore.
I remember saying to my husband, “the decision I make will be 99 per cent for our children, 0.9 per cent for me and you will be the 0.1 per cent that is left over”.
The horror of it all would hit me every day, that this wasn’t someone else’s story and was actually my life.
Within a few weeks I knew that we were dealing with sex addiction and I had to make a choice.