Or do you have unresolved issues that prevent you from trusting others?
But if you and your partner feel like you're starring in your own nightmare version of the movie Groundhog Day -- i.e.Mary Jo Fay, author of Please Dear, Not Tonight, says a lack of sexual self-awareness and education worsens these problems.But having sex is one of the last things you should give up, Fay says.Even though every relationship has its ups and downs, successful couples have learned how to manage the bumps and keep their love life going, says marriage and family therapist Mitch Temple, author of The Marriage Turnaround.They hang in there, tackle problems, and learn how to work through the complex issues of everyday life."Sex," she says, "brings us closer together, releases hormones that help our bodies both physically and mentally, and keeps the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy." Problem-solving strategies: Money problems can start even before the wedding vows are exchanged.They can stem, for example, from the expenses of courtship or from the high cost of a wedding.There’s always something better.” “If you had a reservation somewhere and then a table at Per Se opened up, you’d want to go there,” Alex offers.“Guys view everything as a competition,” he elaborates with his deep, reassuring voice. ” With these dating apps, he says, “you’re always sort of prowling.You could talk to two or three girls at a bar and pick the best one, or you can swipe a couple hundred people a day—the sample size is so much larger. Crew; senior at Parsons; junior at Pace; works in finance …Many do this by reading self-help books and articles, attending seminars, going to counseling, observing other successful couples, or simply using trial and error.All relationship problems stem from poor communication, according to Elaine Fantle Shimberg, author of Blending Families.