With more than 53,000 subscribers, /r/randomactsofblowjob might be the most enthralling subreddit for hookups, simply because the rules of engagement are so specific: You post your age, sexual identity and what you're looking for, accompanied by a short description relaying any notable details. '"These subreddits are also somewhat unique in that there are way more ads posted by women for men than you would assume.Maybe you're a 78-year-old woman woman looking for some fun, or maybe you want to give three blowjobs at once as a throwback to your college years. It's archaic, but it's direct, and that's the point."After my girlfriend and I had a discussion about making our relationship open, RAOBJ was one of the first places I thought to look for casual hookups, because it was so simple, straightforward and honest," subscriber Ryan, 26, told . If you go to /r/randomactsofblowjob or /r/dirtyr4r you'll see a lot of posts by straight dudes, but you'll also see a healthy number from straight women, as well as queer and trans people.It's written in clear, plainspoken language, using the same language you or I might use to try to sell a couch on Craigslist.Unlike other dating sites, everyone on Reddit admits they're there for the same thing: sex. Sometimes, that manifests in ugly ways, as was the case earlier this year with the backlash to the ban of subreddit /r/fatpeoplehate.) Ever open your Tinder to an inbox full of dick pics you didn't ask for?The Tinder survey found that among both online and offline daters, about 50 percent of both men and women have received unsolicited nude photos from potential baes.But while dating apps and websites might help people find lasting connections in the digital world, there are those who are looking for less formal, less polite ways to hook up.That might be why we've seen the rise of the no-nonsense hookup forums on Reddit.
"A lot of traditional hookup vehicles aren't useful for me," she told that the best sex she ever had was with someone she met off Reddit, and that one of her most successful posts was posted to /r/dirtyr4r when she was looking to lose her anal virginity.
In addition to offering subreddits for topics from wrestling to comic books to decades-old computer real-time strategy games, Reddit hosts communities like /r/r4r, a fairly wholesome space for friend and relationship classified-style ads.
There's also /r/dirtyr4r, with a much heavier emphasis on kink, hookups, and one-night stands, /r/randomactsofblowjob, which exists solely to match willing givers with willing receivers, and /r/Random Acts Of Oral Sex, which is more generalized and allows women to solicit favors from gentlemen.
As difficult as people say it is to find love in the 21st century, it's pretty easy to get laid.
You can take the traditional route and try your luck at a club or a bar. Or you can stick to the Tinders and Ok Cupids of the world, websites and applications specifically designed to aid and abet casual hookups.