I am a woman using Adultfriendfinder so my experiences may be a little different but in my opinion Adultfriendfinder is one of the few sites which are actually worth joining. Unlike this place which seems to be a compilation of scammers. This site hit its prime time way long ago when it was one of the pioneers of online dating. Just find other trustable sites and stop the circle of lies, and surely you'll get what you want.
I mean as a woman you usually don't have any issues finding guys who are looking for a good time but somehow it seems like most guys on Adultfriendfinder are nicer and more respectful. Screw the haters yo adult friend finder is still up there with hookuphangout and tinder as the nearest you are gonna get to a sure thing in this game.
Technologically on the surface this seems like it would be a good site, it has a much more modern interface and more interactive devices than other sites, the problem is most of the time these don't work and the site is extremely buggy.
If you like to waste time and money this will be the site for you. There is no dating/hook up site without issues but this one just has way too many.
The fact that I was refunded a portion of my money definitely makes me feel less violated.
Don't waste your money on Adultfriendfinder, especially if it's a real date that you want. These sites are sausage factories - dudes' package pics everywhere - along with sugar babies and hookers.
And then they will send you emails with tips on how to hook up with people on their site, basically blaming you instead of the fact their site is just plain $#*! This is one of the few sites in my entire life where I met absolutely no one, zip, goose egg, zero!
Not even the dreaded ugly fat person who had 20 yr old pics on their profile, you will meet no one here.
But why should someone pay to see profile after profile of other members who they do not find attractive?
Thirdly If I had wanted to join a gay hook up site I would have searched for a site labeled as such.